How to forgive?
February, 22, 2009how do you let go of all the blame when you are still suffering from the after-effects of someone’s mistakes. Is their part over after saying sorry and leaving you in the turmoil of anger and pain and regret and confusion.
How i wish i knew. But being honest on your part does make your raise expectations high from the other one also. So what do i do now? Never be honest again? This hurts!
How do you move-on when in your heart you still blame them for all that happened and that you are suffering.
Its a burden. On me. I need to learn to let go.
Help me learn! Please!
newme
It might sound strange but people forgive but never forget though they would like to the other way around.
Time may push the scar unnderneath but it will surface to the top when you want to relive the pain.
One possible solution will be to engage yourself in some activity you like most.
first, remember that forgiveness is for you, not the other person. it’s about setting yourself free of the negative feelings you are holding onto.
you can forgive someone without ever telling them. forgiveness does not mean you are letting the other person off the hook for what they did to you.